Sep 26 2009

Love & Respect, Part 1

Aram

We just got done attending an amazing conference at The Rock church is San Diego called Love And Respect, put on by Emerson and Sarah Eggerichs. What follows in the next couple posts is an un-edited, uncensored, off the cuff collection of insights, notes, and techniques presented. There may be spelling errors because they were typed up on my phone and my thumbs are clumsy.

I hope they’re meaningful to you!

-She needs love like she needs air. He needs respect like he needs air.

-Unconditional respect to him is as valuable as unconditional love to her.

-Men will serve & die for respect.

-Rhetorical question: Is it ok for your spouse to have a need that you don’t have?

-If good will exists, then most conflict is due to a misunderstanding.

-You can’t get what you need by depriving others of what they need.

-Is what I’m about to do/say going to feel unloving to my wife?

-Is what I’m about to do/say going to feel disrespectful to my husband?

Stay tuned for more…