Jul 13 2009

You Got To Have Faith

Aram

Ever tell your wife that you can’t wait until you get home so you can see her? Or that you can’t wait until she gets home because you miss her?

If not, why don’t you try it? I know, I know, I’ve heard it all. I know you “don’t talk to each other that way.” I know all about “the old ball ‘n’ chain”. I know The Warden usually has you in bed by 9 and you’re not allowed to even talk to your buddies so why would you want to talk to her? I get it.

Try it anyway. The first time you do, realize that you’ll be looked at like you’re a turd in the punchbowl. So be ready for that, it’s just going to happen.

The next time you do, she’ll roll her eyes. The next time after that, you’ll either get a begrudging “You too.” or a genuine, “Thanks honey.”

Here’s the secret. Keep telling her you can’t wait to see her. That you miss her like crazy.

Watch what happens when you perservere and it becomes a habit. You’ll get awesome results. Promise.